In all of our lives, there are seasons for everything. When we were small, we go to school. Everybody goes to school. The exception at that time is, not going to school. People ask you ‘Why are you not going to school?’ When teenagers fall in love in very early ages, in that time, it’s a big deal for all o us. It’s a big conventional NO at that time. Then there’s the time we focus on major exams in school times. Dropping out from school at that time is the exception, coz majority continue studies. Time goes by, and there comes a time everyone is OK to have relationships. It’s the right age.Then there are university times. The right age to study. At that time, getting married early is the exception. We talk about how early those two got married. Then you finish the higher studies and start working. At that time, the exception is not having a job. People talk as in.. ‘Hey.. What a pity, that dude still doesn’t have a job’.
Then come the right time to get married. Everybody around you is getting married. The singles club who used to have fun in the weekends? Well.. The number is getting reduced. There come commitments and responsibilities for the married. At that time, the exception is still being single… People ask you ‘Why are you still single?’.. You have quite a number of weddings per month, blinking the bulb upon your head to indicate that it’s the right time for you to get married.
Then there comes the kids. You hear the good news all over! You hear the newly married getting preggy. It’s the right time to have kids and grow up a family. The exception here is being married and not having kids. People ask you ‘You’re already married and you’re still not thinking about having kids?’. This is how life goes. The circle of life goes on, and you’re just a part of it.. Somewhere in one of these stages.
All these are happening around you. People meet.. They fall in love.. They get married… They have children.. The world moves forward. Yet some of us are struggling to survive.. Struggling to collect the broken pieces our lives, trying to mend our broken hearts…
It’s just a thought….
6 comments:
Nope it’s not a just thought. nice blog :). Everything that you have written are came across or will come across by us.bt one thing.. anyone don’t want to regret what was happened in past and dnt need waste time to collect broken thing in past bz near future may be more fabulous & time is short.
Gayani...........
Hey ... wts with all these "Im a Looser" comments ha ? ya i knw its JST a thought.. bt stil Lv.. common yar... jst pick up those pieces and be with life rathr than feeling sorry for urself !! Wt hpnd has hpnd n wory abt wts gonna hpn.. sure u l find ya way.. !
Then again sweety.. This is not me.. It's just a thought. But I have reasons to think.. looking around and gain something from what I see :)
Hey...I've never put a comment on your posts but i really felt doing so for this one.This is really nice but i don't like the last para.
"All these are happening around you. People meet.. They fall in love.. They get married… They have children.. The world moves forward".......Who cares....The world moves forward or backward..who cares.... ;)
chamila..
This post and some comments reminds me a great movie ''The Curious Case of Benjamin Button''
Yeah.. I agree. Benjamin Button was a total exception..
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