JUNE... THE MONTH OF THE BRIDES... MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS....

It’s June.. the month of the brides. I guess it’s the luckiest month of the year .. with the maximum number of wedding and to add up.. a month very lucky people were born too.. (Ahem..!! Like me that is!!) Throughout the month, you see loads and loads of weddings.. wedding cars here and there… studios filled with photo shoots… the full schedules of reception halls.. hotels.. busy wedding planners… a large number of wedding cake orders…No wonder it’s a busy month. Maybe you also got invited to a lot of weddings too.. I was too. Weddings are so glamorous and majestic.. but the part I hate is where you have to dress up well & go… Oooo I hate dressing up for weddings..

Anyway… lets get back to the topic again. In my blog, I talk a lot about love and relationships. It’s always a good topic to talk about. This time, I’ll just talk a bit about what fate has to do with relationships and marriages. There was this very pretty girl, who was a friend of mine, having a long term relationship with a medical student. We both studied in the same class for a degree in English. After a while, she stopped the class, and we lost contacts sometime after. Yesterday, after 3 years, a friend of mine told me that she got married. I was like “That medical student guy is very lucky. She’s a very good girl”. Then she said, “No.. she didn’t marry him. It’s a businessman”.. It was like a bit of a shock to me. They were having their affair for nearly 10 years. Hmmm… Strange? No I guess.. People can move on with their lives no matter what…

Perhaps you all have noticed this too.. Take the love affairs in campuses.. Out of them, how many of the relationships still exist?? As I know.. only a very few. There were so many couples in our batch, who were going steady. Most of them have drifted apart, after they left the campus, due to many reasons. This guy.. started an affair with a very good friend of mine. That was the girl’s 1^st love. 2 months later, the guy realized that his parents won’t allow his affair. So.. simply, he broke up with her. It was so hard for her since it was her 1^st affair. Till the final year ended, she had to bear seeing him around, and since they were in the same gang, she had to stick with them too. Now.. she has made up her mind.. ready to move on and accepting proposals for marriage with a whole new heart..

In another case, this couple..they had their affair for the whole time they were in the campus. The poor girl was doing all the work for the guy too. He passed the exams well, just because of the girl. After the graduation day, the guy simply dumped her, saying his parents don’t like her. This guy has even talked to the girl’s parents about marrying her. I got to know that they broke up, through face book. A few days ago, she has changed her relationship status in face book as “in a relationship”. That’s when I asked what happened. Now she’s completely in love with a guy whom she met through a proposal… and she’s very happy. They’re going to marry next year. Fate gives you wonderful things.. see?

When I see most of my friends, they’ve met their future wives/ husbands in most miraculous ways. This couple… they were sworn enemies. Recently… when I got to know that they got married.. I was like “him and her??? OMG!!”.. Now, they’re living happily ever after with small kid too.. Sweet!! That’s fate doing wonders..

They meet… they love each other.. perhaps for years.. then they break up… and there comes heartbreaks… But sometimes later… they’re happily married to someone else and living a wonderful life. This is how the circle of life goes… I sit back and watch all these changes in peoples’ lives… In the end… things are sorted out in some way. I guess this is a universal truth for all… Love happens.. Hearts break… but still… life goes on…